Work in Progress
My website project has been underway for several months. We (my in-house geek and I) have tried a few different designs, and I keep writing content. The problem? When I re-read that content, it’s just not right. Frustration ensues—I do this for other companies all the time; why can’t I do my own?—and I “take a break,” which really means I move on to other projects.
After talking to other writers, I realize it’s not just me. For many of us, writing about our OWN company is much harder than writing for clients.
But why? I can’t tell you for sure, but I’ve explored websites and books and come up with a few theories. I’m not sure these apply to men, but they seem to be common themes for creative, talented women.
Details, Details, Details
We get bogged down by the details. When you know absolutely everything about your company—all the things you can do, all the things you have done, the different companies you’ve worked for, and your goals and challenges—it’s hard to get out of your own head and look at it from the audience perspective. Why do people want or need to know about your company?
It’s Not Real Work
We don’t treat writing for ourselves as being just as important as “paid” writing for a client. We’re wrong. Engaging your audience, who in time can become clients or refer clients, means this work IS paid. It’s not a direct do-the-work-bill-the-client-get-paid income link, but in the end, getting new clients is the biggest payoff of them all.
The Big Scary
Oops, sorry to mention that “biggest payoff of them all” thing. Once we start thinking about the desired outcome, our own materials start to take on an exaggerated role. Subconsciously, getting it wrong can be too scary to contemplate. “After all,” our ever-helpful brains say to us, “without a good website or leave-behind, we will never get any clients ever again and then our business will fail, and we won’t be able to pay bills. We are going to end up as bag ladies.”
It’s Bragging
When we were growing up, we internalized the message “don’t brag. People don’t like you if you brag.” Women especially got this message. Learning to promote ourselves and feeling comfortable doing it means unlearning or overcoming our early programming, and replace that recording with one that let’s us talk about our work with excitement and enthusiasm.
In This Case, It Is All About Me
In my case, these four challenges have one thing in common—me. Those creative voices in my head that help me turn out good copy for my clients are not my friends when it comes to self-promotion.
(Don’t freak out about the voices. When I write, I hear the words in my head, and I’ve also taught myself to hear the questions the audience will have. The key messages for a project float around in there too. It gets kind of noisy sometimes.)
Next week: So what are we going to do about it?